Purpose
Use concise, respectful communication that states needs without threats, insults, or pressure.
Lesson 6 - 30 minutes
Communication and Repair
Assertive language without intimidation
Key ideas
Assertive communication is direct and respectful; aggressive communication tries to control through fear or pressure.
Shorter messages are often safer in conflict.
Repair includes naming the behavior, acknowledging impact, and changing the next choice.
Written practice
Turn a blaming statement into an assertive statement using this structure: I felt, I need, I will, and I am willing to.
Quick check
What is the difference between assertive and aggressive communication?
Expected answer
Assertive communication is clear and respectful; aggressive communication uses pressure, threats, or intimidation.